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Q: Where to rent a luxury car (bmw) in Indianapolis?
I would like to rent a BMW preferably to take from Indianapolis to Chicago and back for a weekend. Any ideas on where I could rent one for a weekend? Thanks!

A: http://www.thriftyindy.com/saving.asp

That’s the only place I could find quickly. You have to call to inquire about their luxury brands like BMW, Mercedes, etc. The number’s near the bottom of the page.

Q: What was built in the Pullman Factory?
Was it just luxury sleeping cars? Did they build street cars/trolleys there as well? I know the Pullman company manufactured both of those but I’m not sure what was exactly made at the factory in Chicago. As for the time period I’m looking for 1910-1930ish.

Any info would be tons of help!

A: Pullman Coaches http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pullman_Company It was the only place in the US where sleeping cars were built for the US Railroads also it was the home of the Pullman Porters who worked on each Pullman Car. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pullman_porters
Also see http://www.newberry.org/collections/PullmanGuide.pdf for more info.

Q: What do I do if I need to file a complaint against a cop?
I was stopped at a red light and it turned green and proceeded to drive my car. As I was going someone crashed right into me. Now the cop filed the police report all wrong and wrote that I was the one that crashed into him. He didnt even look at my car and missed a lot of the spots that the damage was on. Everytime I went to the officer to talk to him he would ignore me and move to the other side of the other guys car. He didnt even listen to a word that I was saying. I even have a witness that saw the accident and the cop didnt even take that into account. He didnt even talk to my witness.

What upsets me is that he didnt even take the time to get both sides of the story. The guy that crashed into my car was wearing a flashy suit and had a nice luxury car. The cop just took his word for everything shook his hand and went to his car and wrote my information on the police report. He wrote all of the oppossitte information that I needed him to write. How do I file a complaint? Chicago

A: Go and see the “Officer on Duty” at the main desk. ( Police Station ) Be well dressed and polite. Get the proper forms and write what you just told all of us here. Don’t misspell any words and most of all write in a polite way. When done with the complaint shake hands with the Officer on duty and depart. ( Also make sure you get the name of the Officer who took your complaint and the time of day and date ) Let your insurance agent know what you have done. And….Good luck.

Q: Which car do you think would be the best for Chicago are (winters). S4 / R32 / Speed6 / Evo / WRX or what?
I currently own an 98 A8 which is great, QUATTRO, heated seats, nice car and not bad for the winters up here, but i would like to get something more fun, less of a gas killer when driven like a granny (A8 has a 4.2 V8), I love the AWD and i would like to stick to it. I consider financing something in the 15-18 k range for my next car and i need your opinion guys. I love the luxury of the europeans but i had a RX-8 before and Japanese cars are a lot of fun and they’re fast. A good EVO 8 would do, in the price area, Subaru WRX STI, ‘01 Audi S4, VW R32, Mazda Speed6 (AWD – the only from them). Please, let me know what you think and comment why please. Thank you!
yes it’s payed for but it’s a ‘98 :(

A: I think the Subaru WRX STI would be a good choice….

here is a listing of Subaru dealers in Illinois :)

http://www.wrxsubaru.com/Subaru_WRX_Dealers/USA_Subaru_WRX_Dealers/Illinois_IL/

Q: Do you hate private school?
This is my first year in college at University of Illinois, Chicago and I found out that I really hate the people who attend provate college or universities and not the public one.

At first, the give you an attitude and no manner at all

Second, they flash their money in front of your face.

Last, they spoiled by their parents and they drive luxury cars to school

This is my personal experience and I would like to know how you think about people that goes to private school.

Honest answer, please

A: I absolutely hate private college and university.
Stay away from

University of Chicago
Depaul University

those people who attend those college have major attitude problem and they do not have the basic manner like normal people have.

Q: 23 in chicago, buy a used late 80’s 911 Carrera?
Next spring I’ll be 23 and will have a hair less than 25k to buy an automobile with. I live in Chicago year round and am considering a used luxury vehicle. I’m looking at a late 80’s- early 90’s Porsche 911 (carrera/targa/turbo)

I’ll have the option of keeping the car in the suburbs or at a garage in the city. My roommates and I haven’t sorted out whose car goes in the garage yet.

Any reason I shouldnt get this car? I don’t know much about older Porsche’s but I think it would be so much fun to drive around!

A: Sure, they are a blast! Unfortunately, unless you are making 6 figures, they are not a realistic possibility for most people.

Reasons you shouldn’t get this car:
1) Insanely expensive to fix. Even oil changes are a fortune unless you are going to do them yourself.
2) Have you thought about the cost of insurance? It won’t be cheap in the city at age 23.

Q: Which Suv to buy? (Chicago)?
Hi all,
I am moving to Chicago in January and i am faced with a task of selecting a car for my mother :/.
Now for my self i have already have a Honda CBR600 F4i in storage waiting for me (got it as 17th bday present).
But for my mom (a 36 year old woman) i deiced that she would suit best in a SUV because i imagine would work better in Chicago winter?
So i narrowed down Lincoln Navigator (03) or a newer Ford Explorer (06).
Is difficult because while the Navigator (ultimate luxury version) has all the Luxury and Navigation system. The Explorer is newer and i am not sure if the Navigator is reliable? But then again Explorer lacks leather and Navigation. Which mean we’ll have to buy an external unit since my mom has no sense of direction.
So folks, What do you think?
Which one would be best? You’re welcome to suggest another car. But it has to be comfortable (hence why i selected Navigator cuz it has indepedent rear suspension) and have sat Nav.
Thank you for your time :]

A: Where in Chicago are you moving? If you are down town and do not have parking in your building, you don’t need a car take public transit. Parking is expensive in the city. If down town and that does not work for you, the explorer as it will be easier to park with the available parking. If your are moving to the suburbs, I imagine the more Navigator will offer you more comfort, bells and whistles.

Other than that, why are you fixated on Fords/Lincolns? She can lease a Cadillac Escalade for as low as the Navigator and it is a far better vehicle all the way around. If you go with the Ford/Lincoln though, do your homework on price. Lease the vehicle don’t buy it. And make sure the cap coast is the same price you negotiate. Always buy things that appreciate like houses and lease things that depreciate like automobiles.

Q: If I move to the Chicago region, and my family lives in metro Philadelphia, pros and cons of living there?
I will appreciate a detailed and long list of pros and cons (like, 15 for each), and please, make sure they’re considerable.

Here are a few I can think of. Do you agree with them? If you think they’re incorrect, just tell me.

Pros:

1. Lots to do in the region (e.g. museums, sports, shows, events, outdoor activities)
2. World-class culture
3. Transportation hub, both by car and airplane
4. Robust public transit system

Cons:

1. Brutal Winters
2. Cost of living
3. Bad traffic, especially on expressways

Also, there are some which I’m not sure about. Would you consider these pros and cons true?

1. Distinct seasons. True?
2. Lots of scenery. True?
3. Interesting blend of the old and new (e.g. Navy Pier, Wrigley Field, Chicago Board of Trade). True?

Another question, during most of the year, flights to/from Philadelphia and Chicago and vice versa depart every hour. Since Chicago is about 800 miles away, how much hassle would I have to go through to visit my family? How expensive are the tickets are on average during both the off-peak and peak season?

Also, one of the alternatives is Amtrak, which takes 17 hours. Some people claim it’s no cheaper than the airline, including the luxuries, for example, the sleeper car. Is that true, in all cases, or something else, like some cases?

I also have a weather-related question which I couldn’t fit in the subject line. My Aunt Paula claims Chicago vs. Boston, I’d be much happier in Boston, primarily due to weather. Can people who move to Chicago deal with the weather? Also, even though the winters are brutal, in the summer, are there still common summer activities, for example, state parks, pools, etc.? Also, although Chicago’s beaches are on Lake Michigan and not on an ocean, are people still satisfied with their experience?

I know I may have asked a lot of questions, moving far from my family is very difficult, although that’s what many people do.

Chicago is isolated, unlike Boston, Washington DC, NYC, etc. To be a tourist if you live in Chicagoland, you have to travel a distance. Do people still tour destinations in Chicago (e.g. Canada, NYC, San Francisco, Mexico)?

Despite my account is configured not to allow email, for this question, I will allow it. Feel free to private message me at mobidomain@yahoo.com. Thank you.

A: I do not have time to go into a much detail, nut your pros and cons seem pretty much correct. Yes, there are distinct seasons, but some say there are only two, winter and road construction. Winters can be cold and snowy at times, and summer can get hot. However, not that much more or less so than anywhere else in the upper Midwest. As far as scenery goes, there is a great deal, but I am sure it depends on how you define scenery. It is not like the mountains or the coasts, despite having access to Lake Michigan and all the rivers in the state. The Vermillion River S/SW of Chicago even has white water rafting and there are many state parks in this part of the Midwest. Travel is not a problem from the Chicago area, unless it is getting in/out of the airports at busy times. Amtrak is good, but it is much slower than air travel of course and can be more expensive if you go with sleeper accommodations. Be aware that Chicago has relatively high taxes compared to the rest of the country and even the surrounding metropolitan area. I hope this helped.

Q: Should I buy this Lincoln LS?
http://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/cto/1775922371.html

Okay,so my hyundai tiburon was recently totaled(not my fault btw),so I’m in the market for a new car. I’m only 19 and only have about $3,000 to spend on another car. I fell in love with this one because it has the leather seats and moonroof! & because its a great canvas for me to customize..meaning I can put tints etc without having to fix any other cosmetic problems. Also,it is a luxury car targeted at young people..need I say more? ;) (NOT a town car like most Lincolns)

I was wondering if anyone knows if the mileage is too high for this type of car? I hear its a luxury style American made car..but would like to know more. Anything else I should look out for with a Lincoln ls?

My Hyundai tiburon had over 183,000 miles when it got totaled and was running perfect with NO problems whatsoever!

I’d really appreciate all feedback. If its negative,please suggest another make for me to check out!
-Thank you!! =]

P.s already got quoted w/my car insurance,it is the same amount to insure as my tiburon=]
So insurance on it won’t be a problem!

Looking at this beauty too!(same car different color)

http://www.automotive.com/2000/65/lincoln/ls/v8/illinois/harvey/584809/1481/images.html

A: You also should compare car insurance quotes for cars before buying one, for example here – carquotes.sinfree.net

Q: This or that……which do you prefer?
(1) Vodka or tequila
(2) short skirts or low cut tops
(3) blondes, brunettes, or redheads
(4) bars or clubs
(5) sports cars or luxury sedans
(6) going out on Friday night or Saturday night
(7) The classics: Billy Madison or Happy Gilmore
(8) Hooters or Old Chicago
(9) Vacation: Hawaii or Bahamas
(10) Pam Anderson’s liasons: Tommy Lee or Kid Rock

A: (1) Vodka
(2) short skirts
(3) brunettes
(4) bars
(5) sports cars
(6) Saturday night
(7) Happy Gilmore
(8) Hooters
(9) Hawaii
(10) Tommy Lee (eww to both)

Q: If you even suspect that the “repo-man” is coming to get your car/truck…hiding it might be wise ?
for millions…that is their lifeline ! How else you going to get to work, take the kids to school, go to medical appointments, etc. Most folks don’t have the luxury of public transportation or massive amounts of cab fare ! …but if these issues aren’t more important than the banks having repo-man but it in the storage yard somewhere…just continue to park it in your driveway ! You can walk to the mall for Christmas shopping. I was a repo-man in Chicago !

A: Hiding your car is just putting the problem off for another day. The bank will not give up.

Q: Need A lot of Advice about Confusing Ex! Please Help Me! I am Desperate!!!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.

I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible

Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.

The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.

However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.

I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.

The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.

Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?

Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?

A: wowserz, she seems like she will be getting no where in life with begin independent. you don’t need a girl like that, remind yourself, you do not want to be putting up with a girl like her, she seems stuck up and ungrateful..who cares how much she has, god made you the way you are because he has big plans for you, but you have to believe it!! god made her like that because she needs help…don’t worry about ther love life, it may be hardd..being lonely sometimes..but your time will come dont rush nature…just go with the flow of the river, rocks will be thrown but you will flow right pass them..I’m sure your strong, dont let it get you down.
keep doing your day job!! forget her, remember who you aare..and theres no comparison between you to..
you probably have a much better family life with yours than she does with her own, and thats most important.
her parents..seem..like they dont know what there doing, and its annoying, but we learn to live with people like them, and thaats life.

-hope the words of a high school student help =D
strength, leads to succes…

p.s. your way out of her league, why?
your beyond her, you have MUCH MUCHH MORE than you can see!

Q: Depressing and Confusing Ex-Girlfriend Problem! Please Help Me!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.

I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible

Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.

The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.

However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.

I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury.

The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.

Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?

A: Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him?
What the French Toast is wrong with you, you are in no position to question God and what he does in ones life

Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her?
Yes you should because you have lots of things to sort out in your head

Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again?
What does race or color matter. You seem very immature. Maybe that is why the relationship will fail.

Why do I feel this way?
Maybe you should consult a licensed therapist to help you sort out serious issues in your life

I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do?
Seek a support group or seek a therapist

Am I even in her league at all?
Is she a super life form?!? what does that question even mean. You need self esteem and should try and figure out why you do not have it

Q: Need Help Understanding Ex-Girlfriend! Please Help! Confused!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.

I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible

Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.

The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.

However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.

I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.

The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.

Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?

Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?

A: Stop comparing yourself and your life to hers. She gets everything handed to her–you work for what you have, and your parents have instilled you with a work ethic. Though you still care for your ex, and though she may be a fine person, it could be time to move on to someone who shares your views, and who does not make you feel out of your league. This whole issue is dragging you down and depressing you to the point where your marks and your health (physical and mental) is suffering. It’s time for a change. Get rid of that burden that really isn’t yours to carry.

Q: Please Help! Really Desperate for Advice about Ex! Need all Help!!!?
Hi guys I know this is pretty long but please help me out if you can find it in your heart to aid a really down college student.

I will choose a best answer and dish out points whenever possible

Alright so basically, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 3 months ago because she said that she needed time to “grow up”. Basically, we decided to still be friends because we really still like each other and get along great. However, I am still very much in love with her.

The problem is that lately I’ve been feeling really down around my ex and kind of jealous and I don’t know why. She’s basically perfect at everything. She’s very attractive because a lot of guys flirt with her, wears size 00 pants, exercises constantly, her parents are wealthier than mine as she lives in a half a million dollar house and her dad retired at the age of 48, she always gets whatever she wants (material-wise) i.e. she has two pairs of Uggs, wears all Abercrombie clothing, gets the newest iPod every year, breaks her cell phone at least 3 times a year, has two pairs of Sperry type shoes, and gets Tiffany and Co. jewelry costing around $175 once a year (She gets all this stuff usually for Christmas or just because presents but she always gets whats on her list of wants), she makes friends easily, has time to join lots of clubs in college, works as a store model for Abercrombie and has a higher GPA than me while majoring in journalism, and sometimes I feel like she has all of God’s blessing even though she is extremely atheist.

However, I am the complete opposite as I always work for what I get. I’m in one of the top 10 business schools in the nation but struggle to maintain a 3.0 GPA and spend most of my time studying, I haven’t met very many people in college because I’m trying to save money by living at home with my parents (my ex lives in the dorms which her parents pay for even though her parents live 2 blocks away from campus), I spend all my free time at home, I don’t find myself as attractive because I’ve only worked for American Eagle and I am Asian, my parents want me to earn things so I have to work to pay for my clothes, cell phone, car repairs and other stuff I want unlike my ex.

I just feel crappy to the point that I’ve been unmotivated to study and I want to sleep all day. I’ve stopped going to the gym and I have been wallowing in my own self-pity, I’m always wishing that my parents were a lot richer because my ex gets to finish college at her own pace while I’m pressured to finish in 4 while her parents can also afford to let her take summer classes not only at where we go to school but to other colleges such as New York University and/or Chicago to make her workload easier while I don’t have that luxury. She also got a chance to study abroad twice.

The only thing I feel like I have an advantage over her is that I know how to invest and save my money better than her because she can’t save her own money at all. She doesn’t even know how the basic definition of a stock or how a credit and debit card work. I am very ambitious and always look for ways to make extra money through investing and saving but I always still feel down because I know that she’ll still get ahead of me in the future because her father is already investing money for her for her retirement in the thousands already.

Not only does she get all that stuff but her little sister and her brother get all the stuff they want to. Her sister basically gets everything my ex does like a new iPod at the same time my ex does and wears Abercrombie only also. However, if she doesn’t get her way at all, she always throws a fit (I’ve been there to witness it) until she gets her way. I don’t understand how she gets all this stuff either. Is it possible to get a life like this when her dad worked as an engineer for GM for 20 years and is now retired and her mom is a territorial manager for Johnson and Johnson?

Despite all this I feel like God’s let me down. Why does he bless people that don’t believe in him? Should I stay away from my ex even though I still love her? She is white and we’ve known each other for 4 years and dated each other for 2 and a half years. Can a relationship with 2 different people like this work out again? Why do I feel this way? I get really jealous because no girls flirt with me at college compared to guys hitting on her. What should I do? Am I even in her league at all?

A: What you have to do is stop thinking about her so much and focus on yourself. You could have anything you want you just have to put your energy into focusing on yourself. She is not thinking about you, she’s thinking about herself and you should do the same. I know what it is to care about someone and they don’t care about you, but you need to convince yourself that you are the most important person in your life right now.You waste too many brain cells on things that are meaningless. Grow up and stop thinking about cell phones and bull****. You have an opportunity to be successful and you are going to piss your life away because of some spoiled bitch. You have to be selfish sometimes, and God has nothing to do with it, some people are just lucky. Be strong and concentrate on your studies and stop wasting your life on that bitch. Only the strong survive.

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